Mainstream porn films traditionally feature at least one scene of two ladies getting it on. It is not difficult to understand why so many heterosexual men enjoy lesbian lovemaking. Scenes that are female-only remove any possibility that the viewer could get turned on by another man. Yet there is evidence that ladies are looking at erotica created for gay guys in unexpected numbers. That evidence is not just anecdotal but solidly statistical. Gay men hate being told they are like women.
Only One Kind of Sex Turns Me On—and I Can Never Have It
Sex with bisexual men is better, according to these women
While being bisexual of course doesn't make you automatically good at sex, these women who are mostly bi, but all sex-positive , themselves say they find sex with bi guys much more enjoyable. It's important to note the widely held misconceptions about bisexual people that are rooted in biphobia - that they're more likely to cheat, promiscuous, greedy or just "confused". Bisexual women are often fetishised - mainly by cis, straight guys - and seen as performing their queerness for men. This is, of course, all bullshit.
'I like watching my husband with other men'
When we think about our partners having sex with other people, it's usually with someone from the opposite sex, but how would you feel if you your man was having sex with another man? For a small but growing number of women, seeing their man with another man is not only okay, it's also a big turn on. Bradford and Angela have been together for nearly 10 years after meeting at work. The only difference between Bradford and Angela and other married couples is they are both bisexual and they have an open relationship. They also run the BytheBi network, which is a support group for bisexual people where they run events, sex ed-classes and a podcast.
In it, Neville, a lecturer at the University of Leicester in the United Kingdom, investigates what women enjoy about consuming gay male erotica and how it fits in with their perceptions of gender and sexuality. Neville interviewed and surveyed more than women over five years for the project. It was interesting to find that half the sample had done that. Anjelika, 38, who declined to share her last name because she did not want to publicly reveal her porn-viewing habits, is a startup founder in San Francisco who identifies as bisexual. Anjelika also said some of the videos that pop up in the straight section of porn sites rub her the wrong way.